He's really pushing my buttons. I'm really resisting contacting him. But this cutting off of money is such a control over me.
This is really pushing me to want the D. He's getting what he wants.
I wonder, if you wait it out a little while longer and call his bluff. Will he really withhold the money? If he does- you can then file and he will really look bad before a judge and in a way you win a bit with the courts. If he "blinks" and continues to pay support- then you also "win" in a way.
I would continue to wait it out and see what happens. I am assuming he emailed and stated he was not going to pay the tax bill on the 31st. I wonder if this is posturing. Really trying to get you to break no contact and then in essence win control back.
I guess I am saying- definitely a lawyer consult but don't file just yet IMO, see how things play out and what he does. If he continues to send you harassing and threatening emails it only helps your case in the end.
Last edited by june72; 12/15/0903:54 AM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
