WAW on suicide watch, what now???

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I do not even think she will ask where or who but I know I got under her skin when I told her I had plans tomorrow night. She was supposed to take S9 again on Thursday night but now says she has plans. This feels so much like a game boys and girls play in high school, tit for tat. That is fine, for now I will play the game. I don't have an actual "date" tomorrow but I am looking forward to getting out and not have to worry so much about the kids.

Our contact is increasing more and more, I am remaining upbeat and positive when speaking with her. Today however I did have to let her know that since she was not contributing anymore money to the household account that I was not going to be able to continue to pay the bills that belong to her. I was not rude or anything, infact I would say I was polite but firm. This really upset her and she said she could not concentrate and now would have trouble working the rest of the day. I was polite and validated her feelings by saying "I understand not being able to concetrate at work". I went on to say that I had to make decisions that are best for me and the kids now. I then asked if she was planning on supporting the kids financially in the future. This really got her going but I was still polite and firm. I feel like I am back in the driver's seat tonight and not along for the ride no matter what happens.