Update: Party went fine. Wife was agitated that her sister called during the party to say happy bday to my little man. Refused to talk to her sister.
When party was over, told wife we need to agree to some rules for the separation agreement, and she got defensive, wanted to go "research" and let me know if she wants her own attorney. I warned her that it will cost her money. I'm sure she's consulting Mr Dbag, the all knowing entity.
Wife brought receipt to prove that her atm withdrawal yesterday was to pay one of her store credit card bills. I told her I apologize for accusing, but that her lack of communication left me no choice. She was also PISSED that I transfered all money into my private account.
I feel like her continuing disrespect left me no choice. And I don't feel that I should just "release" the money to her ("its my money, too!). I feel that the separation agreement getting done would be the appropriate time to "release" money. Right?