Not sure what to do

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Stu,
I was just reading your sitch. Ours are alot alike and Ive struggles with some of the same issues.
How do I show someone ive changed if my only contact with them is talking back in forth via text about the kids.
The only time ive seen here the last three weeks was one day when she droppped them when I was home.
I think ive been doing a good job detaching but I wonder everday is this how its going to end??