I really want to repair this M. We are working on our individual issues, but I want to work out a plan with him and his counselor to eventually reconnect emotionally and physically. I'm tired of being in limbo.


Me - Faithful wife
H - WAH
Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year
Both in our early 40's
M - 16 years w/ no kids
T - 21 years
Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother