My advice is short and simple.

You have two options -

1. What you have done so far is working. Keep doing it. Don't be clingy or needy as that has pushed her away in the past.

2. Tell her no more until she stops seeing the OM.

Stop reading things into what she is saying and stop reading things into her tone. You don't know in a week if she is seeing the OM and if she does, there is nothing you can do about it. Stop mind reading.

And WTF is all this ILY's about? She's with somebody else ... why is she telling YOU she loves you?

Stop telling her that NOW.

Last edited by P17; 12/15/09 12:52 AM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"