Call the hotel and tell them that the stay at the hotel was for a work search, and you are doing your taxes. Ask if they can send you the invoice from the hotel stay because you want to claim it and have misplaced the original. Im not sure how it works when they send out invites about those kinds of things. If its a small hotel, or a resort type of thing, they might systematically send things like that out to thier guest lists.
Im sorry, but I hope that its just one of those things that there is a perfectly good explaination. You knew that he was up to something, so its not that big of a surprise, who knows, maybe he just drank himself silly and had to stay there for the night.
Really, you are supposed to be detaching, so you need to try to let this go. Document, it, but dont focus on it and let it consume you. Just when we are doing so well, these things come and punch us in the stomach. Remember how you go to this point, and work hard to get back there.
Courtney, you have been doing so well, you are going to be fine. Yes, this is a set back, but you know how to rise above it.
((((Courtney))))
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...