I know my wife is suffering and I would do anything to take the pain for her.
Why? Why would you subject yourself to that? I know it sounds noble and romantic, but it's really not. It sounds weak and clingy.
HER CHOICES, HER CONSEQUENCES. It was her choice to get involved with OM.
This presents her with two options:
1) Dump him and go back to you 2) Dump you and go be with him
Either one of those options are going to be painful for her. But she has to do it.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
