This is how every "surprise" went. H would "plan" something and then he would say something like he didn't have anything planned so I would say forget it and he would get mad. I would get disappointed and that would be it.
Omg, I know I totally get that. I always just wanted H to plan something and follow thru with it, but it always ended in disappointment. I think the only time he did that successfully was when he proposed to me!
It's ok not to get it. I doubt he gets it himself. He sounds like a very torn man. He obviously has strong feelings for you, hence why he married and had a son with you, but has this wandering need for OW's (still not acceptably though. Many men have controlled this urge b/c its the right and loving thing to do - our H's need to learn this and soon!) But anyways, definitely a good thing that he wants to spend time with you and just you (family time is good too, but like you told me, couple time is just as if not more important to foster your R). And it's a good reminder to you that he's not in it just for the family. But try not to let him get to you too much. I know you've been waiting for so long for this anniversary to come. Give him a chance to prove himself to you, but unfortuantely as it goes, also be prepared for the fact that he may let you down again. I don't know what his motives are behind this but it seems like a positive direction. The more "us" time you two have together, the more he has a chance to see what a great person you are and the life he is missing. It is all overwhleming but you did good by not overreacting to H. You gave him the reins and now it's up to him...
Oooo, I love breakfast for dinner. Haven't had that for awhile. Need to to that again soon! =) Enjoy!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
