Originally Posted By: britt54
I'm living with a man who doesn't want to be my husband. I know this deep down. I just refuse to admit it, as I want the marriage back together more than life itself right now.


As long as you really feel that way, he will continue to jerk you around and keep you at arm's length, because he knows you won't do anything to upset him (or will apologize profusely if you do).

Detachment 101. It really is a matter of "if you love someone, set them free."


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."