Long time since I posted to you (but I still follow your thread).
I'm sorry but I nearly peed myself laughing at your description of your confrontation with OM. Not all of us get the chance to see the OP but I guess we can take the gloves off a little after a D is final. I think you did good under the circumstances plenty of posturing and verbals without getting physical.
You gave me a another laugh when you said you'd reached "ass status" with XW, I laughed cos XW probably thought you reached that a long time ago. but the day was yours, I hope that all of that goes a little way towards helping you move on with you life.