W is W, after all our ups and downs she hasn't changed one bit her attitude and outlook are just the same as they were 3-4 years ago, the only difference now is there is no OM or PA going on (to the best of my knowledge).
Rob, I've done romantic holidays, romantic walks, I've done the we don't need to ML you can just lay next to me. I've done the surprise special meals, I've done the family days and events that she always craves. She'll lap them up then thats it. She has told me that she wants to be woo'ed but, I've told her that if someone wanted to be woo'ed they usually make themselves receptive to that. she doesn't do that.
When I zig she (intentionally)zags, when I do the classic focus on me and D8 she muscles in, if I do a 180 she'll do a 180. If I walk she moves closer, if I stop she stops, its as if she wants to keep a certain distance between us and we don't go beyond.
So I just sigh to myself and say get on with my own stuff cos I have absolutely no idea what goes on in her head.