I am not much for the bar scene either. May be why I am not eating anyone
Sorry GM that just really cracked me up when I read that...I'm a guy so my mind goes there
SO2, expect your ex to get angry, you're changing the dynamics, you're not jumping at his every move...Keep up the good work.
It cracked me up too!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Baby is feeling better and I need to try and finish Xmas shopping. I only have a couple left, but don't want to wait until last minute. I haven't wrapped one gift yet. Our Xmas tree has ornaments only on the top half. We had to move them as baby was taking all of them.
With you on this one. I still have a bit left to do. Tree still needs to be decorated on Thursday.
Not much you can do other than work on yourself and be there for your baby until H decides he wants to work on himself.
And yes, another December collapse by the Cowboys. Ugg, frusturating.
So where are you at today with regard to texting. Have you gotten any yet? And are you holding off on responding?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
So where are you at today with regard to texting. Have you gotten any yet? And are you holding off on responding?
Kevin
Yeah, he already sent a text this morning telling me to give baby a kiss for him. I really don't know why he sends those as she is too young to have a clue. I haven't responded yet, but if I don't at least say ok he will keep sending.
I am waiting to hear from my son. He is taking his drivers test this morning. Hope he passes.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Ok, my son passed his drivers test this morning! He was so excited. For me its a mixed blessing. So scary when they start driving.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I'm actually not in agreement with being rude. IMHO, she still needs to be polite and if he is doing GOOD things, then by all means she should respond. It's when he does STUPID things that she should ignore.
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He doesn't want to do the work to change.
you know why? because 1, he hates himself 2, he's probably never been truly happy (see number 1) 3, He doesn't realize how great the reward is if he WOULD do the work.
YEA for your son!!! and yes, I'm scared for you too!! lol He'll be fine though luckily for us, you have to be 16 AND have a drivers ed class before you can drive. and even then, you can't drive with kids in your car, or go anywhere except work or school. (personally I think it's too strict, but it would be good for some kids)
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Gabby..that made my day. I still laugh when I see it.
ST...my son driving is good and bad. Good that he wants it so bad and its much more convenient for me. Getting up at 5 the other morning to take him to the high school to get the bus for wrestling was brutal. Just get scared of stupid accidents. Just keep praying.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
luckily for us, you have to be 16 AND have a drivers ed class before you can drive. and even then, you can't drive with kids in your car, or go anywhere except work or school. (personally I think it's too strict, but it would be good for some kids)