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[awest1217]

So once again...I DON'T GET IT. H starts this afternoon texting me "what a day..." I say yeah me too. Then he says "are you ready for a vacation?" I was thinking he was talking about having two weeks off so I say "definitely". Then he says where do you want to go? If you could go anywhere where would it be. I gave him some options thinking he is just bluffing, and he saying he has found tickets to one place, but they are too expensive...DUH. We are still apart and have to pay double so of course we don't have enough money. Then I say maybe a couple of days in Chicago next week will be fun. He says yeah for our anniversary. I say I thought you already had plans and he says I do but I can change them if you want to get out of town. By this point I am fuming, frustrated, and just all around perturbed. I just say tell me where to be, when and what I need, and I will be there. I don't get him at all. He goes from Saturday saying he has everything planned to now...not, or changing it. I don't get it.

This is how every "surprise" went. H would "plan" something and then he would say something like he didn't have anything planned so I would say forget it and he would get mad. I would get disappointed and that would be it.

I just don't know what to think. I think I am overwhelmed because I am sick. Our anniversary is Thursday and we are not doing anything. H is spending all this money, but hasn't paid me yet. S is very clingy again. Many other things. Anyway just kind of complaining and I need to stop because at least H wants to do things with me.

Off to an early shower then "breakfast" for dinner. Yum!