I've recently tried this approach w/my H, and BRITT, IT WORKS!
I haven't told him it's unattractive, but, trust, me, THAT IS NEXT! But, I have called him on it, where before I would almost ignore it. I have about five examples on my thread w/in the last month or so.
I like it.
Once he did it in front of my BFF, and SHE got involved!
He said something about my new sunglasses looking like Elvis. I told him... "Dude, you're obviously blind, or something to that affect." (Trying to be funny.) Then, I gave him a SEARING look, and raised my eyebrows at him, then stared him down. He started to say something about me not liking that he didn't compliment me, and the BFF says, "H, you are SO high maintenance. BFF is a f'n saint if this is a daily occurrence! Glad I haven't seen this side of you before."
My solution is to call him on it. They come fewer and farther between.
Good luck w/that Britt.
It's NOT about that awesome hat (I just got one, too!)! It's about getting out some of that poison that's trapped in. Well, sheesh, do that at the gym, or to someone else.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
