Not Me...Ever part 2

[Serenity13]

Puppy, Coach, Trent, Gardener, anyone...Some help please...

Here is something new...

I went to pick up my little one from school and as I was waiting, I received a phone call from my MIL...

She let me know that my BIL had heard from H as recent as last week.

BIL asked him how we all were doing and H implied that we are all just fine together as one big happy family...

No mention that we are S, no mention of the OW etc...

Seriously is he really that fogged out?

BIL does indeed know to an extent what is going on because well I am a firm believer in exposure and I did indeed hope that by exposing his affair, it would end (no such luck).

So they emailed back and forth for a few and H then contacted my SIL (she knows as well) and made some mention of OW's mother moving here (to the town they live in) and that him and OW (who moved in with her Mom) were no longer together - At least that is the impression she got...

So my quandry...

Of course I want them broken up beyond any repair...

If they are indeed no longer together, why didn't he come home?

Do I reach out to him, not letting him know I know but just to let him know I am still here?

Wouldn't that be pursuing?

Is he to be believed at this point?

To be honest my gut says no...

I feel he is still blowing smoke up whoever's butt will listen to him and he has that "good guy" complex which won't allow him to be seen as being the one who bailed without a glance back.

Do I believe him or do I trust my instincts?