I'm not fresh at this... I started a year ago w/the DB'ing. It was great for getting us to a place where we could co-exist and be very good friends. Prior to that it was a year of him having many, many ups and downs, and me being incredibly emotional. DB'ing gave me center, focus, and the ability to see small results at a time when I needed something.
I need a LOT more than that now.
It's time for him to man-up, once I've woman'd up to him after the holidays.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
