okay, I see the error in miscommunication-- I said "invite!"

So, the plan B letter doesn't come right out and asks the WAS if they WANT a divorce which is what "invite" means! Got it.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004