Puppy, wouldn't this be giving in to his actions? I would be reacting the way he would want me to...isn't it? Have you used the "not very attractive" comment before? Has it worked? I feel my H would reply with something like "I don't care if I'm attractive to you.." ....then what.
It's one of the best put-downs I have ever heard
It will work, trust me. Trust PDT.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"