Ugggghhhhh. Every day feels like I'm drifting farther away from W and see no way back. She's joined Match.com.
From a positive standpoint, that again means there's no OM.
From a negative standpoint, she's starting to get lonely but is not turning back to me.
Maybe it's my own fault. She looked on my Facebook and saw that I went out with a woman -- in a group of people -- the night before Thanksgiving. I know it wasn't a date. But it could look like one.
I guess I could try to look at it positively in that we've been apart seven months now and she hasn't found this great life on the other side.
But I don't see how we get from "the grass isn't greener" to "let's work on the marriage" if I don't at least try to reach out.
How do I extend the hand without pursuing?
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
