Pls help--confused and fearful

[P17]

P17, this is what I mean by "inviting the WAH to divorce."
It's from your plan B letter:

We're looking at it differently I think. All it says is 'don't talk to me until you are ready to talk about reconciliation or divorce'.

LRT is the Last Resort though so to use it you must be ready to end the M anyway. So if you are, telling them you only want to talk about those two things shouldn't make any difference.

LRT isn't about them though, it's about us. But for the WAS it is an ultimatum.