Wow K your latest post was bringing tears to my eyes then, seriously I feel so emotional... and then i got to the bottom of it and thought (excuse me for a minute here!).. vindicated! I knew it (thanks Kat! )
I dont know why, but I feel I 'get' your H and I still have sympathy with him, god knows why after what he's put you through ! And I still feel he is being truthful about this NC with her.
You have to take that on board, those things he said - He doesnt like the fights and yelling and he is afraid of your reactions, of doing/saying the wrong thing and making it worse. He is paralysed with guilt etc.
Anyway, I wont repeat what my long post said before but I'm still pulling for this marriage 100%!
I'm so glad you got this information from your BGF (well done her!!). Knowledge is power, use it...
You thought anymore about asking him to come home?
Uranus is in the last degree of Pisces, time to jump off the cliff...xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread