Adult kids here. It does make things more difficult. My WAW has not spoken to our sons, the only communication with the youngest was through text and he told her he didn't want to have anything to do with her again. He's her fav., so that had to hurt. She reach out to him again last week, but he did not respond. My oldest will not allow her to see grankids but I am sure his wife is going around him to allow here to see them. We are currently in darkness, I hope this gets things going, I think she actually wants me to chase her as I have always done, she gave me her address last week, which she had worked so hard to keep from me.
