We got into it a little this morning.

End result is that she told me to find a mediator. I 'thanked' her for being willing to go with a mediator to divorce me rather than go to her lawyer since I really don't want to pay for lawyers if we don't have to.

It will be interesting to see what comes out of it and if we can resolve a couple of issues using the mediator. The big one is that she refuses to work more than 2 days a week like she has done the past 20 years and then I pay her support based upon that. I have told her it is unrealistic to expect to not have to work more now that we have to pay for 2 households, etc.


ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline