I know my wife is suffering and I would do anything to take the pain for her.
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Careful. You are VERY close to being in an unhealthy co-dependency/enmeshment here. This plus the two comments above about her "grieving" worry me.
"I hate to see you hurting like this" should be the limit to what you say to her. Do NOT let her dump on you with her withdrawal stories about her love for OM; that's unhealthy for you, and incredibly disrespectful.
