Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

S3 is so excited for Christmas, and I don't want to ruin anything. He is excited for daddy to come home on shift christmas eve and open "one" gift, and to be there when he wakes up christmas morning. If i do this now, that will all change. I need to give that kid some security.

Given that he may likely be moving out after the holidays (depending on his choice), I'm not sure how much security he'll be getting.

If you want to chalk it up to having a good Christmas memory, then that would be different...