Can I save my marriage?

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R2C, good point. I guess if you give him the option, then I'm throwing the ball back in his court. It wouldn't exactly be translated as me kicking him out. If he chooses not to work on marriage then that's his problem. I see this more clearly now. I do have to say I may wait till holidays are over though.

S3 is so excited for Christmas, and I don't want to ruin anything. He is excited for daddy to come home on shift christmas eve and open "one" gift, and to be there when he wakes up christmas morning. If i do this now, that will all change. I need to give that kid some security.