She is a small business owner and is an instructor and he is a trainee. She could have him train with someone else or eject him from the program. It would be completely her perogative. There is no income from this venture. She obviously is still cake eating here or pretending, for me or for her, to end the A.

It's probobly pretty natural for the WAW to resist the end of the A, akin to the Sienfeld soda machine tipping theory. It wont happen on the first push. My IC says, like you say Puppy, disegaging from an A is a process. The exposure came as a shock to her yesterday. This was pretty sudden and traumatic. So, it is hard to come to terms with even the idea of the loss. In any event, I am glad I kept the pressure on. It shows her that I am fighting for our marriage and that I will show the black flag.