Can I save my marriage?

[Ready2Change]

Some people have mentioned asking him to leave if he doesn't change his ways. But personally I'd rather wait till he leaves. If I ask him to leave then again, its my fault.

This is why boundaries are important. You give HIM two options and let him choice.

1) End the marriage.
2) Work on the marriage.

If spouse chooses option 1, then get out.
If spouse chooses option 2, then I need: Marriage counseling, respect,openness, honesty, transparency, love, etc....

Any yes, there are effective ways to phrase this to the spouse that are not so blunt.