I have to tell you about my experience on a dating site. A friend talked me into signing onto a free one. The first 3 guys they declared a match were the following: a guy with no legs, a biker dude on a Harley with a beard halfway down his chest, and a male witch looking for a live-in for a 3-way and to be a caregiver for his ailing wife! I'm not making this up!
Needless to say, my time on that site was very short-lived.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
yeah; I figure that any guy I'd have to carry up the stairs to my bedroom--should we get to that point--is just not gonna be my soulmate. I mean, maybe that makes me shallow, but y'know?!
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M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Well I never thought I would consider even looking at a dating site yet when I finally did - I met several very good prospects. And one of them has led to a long term (5.5 years to date) R. So - don't give up. Be careful. Set your standards high - but not unattainable. I mean - we are not perfect either. I thought I was settling for someone younger (7 years younger) and one who lived out of my city (more than an hour away). But think about it - what is wrong with that? He has more energy than someone 7 years older and the further away means I still get plenty of ME time.
Anyway, just my 2 cents for what it is worth. It worked for me!
