Remember the movie with the crazy Italians John? Moonstruck with Cher and N. Cage? I LOOOVE that movie. Her dad -old man- is having an A and at point her mom I think says men are having affairs when they get old because they are afraid of dying. So Olympia Doukakis approaches her unfaithful H, looks at him and tells him :no matter what you do, you are still going to die!! (she won the Oscar for that movie, she dbed the A for sure!)