Can I save my marriage?

[Lll54]

The thing is...I think deep down in my heart I dont think I'm in limbo. The way my H is acting proves he is only here for a place to stay. I'm assuming until winter is over and we can sell the house. He hasn't given me any reason to believe he is home for me, other than the odd kiss, and odd cuddle, and odd touch here and there. That all comes from me being his wife and mother of his children. Its natural. Its not because he longs for it like I do. I'm not in limbo. I'm living with a man who doesn't want to be my husband. I know this deep down. I just refuse to admit it, as I want the marriage back together more than life itself right now.