Ugh. How can I write this man a kind letter after his cruelty? Gag.
If you looked at the letters from the Marriage Builders forum then they look at things differently.
I had a lot of wishy washy stuff in my letter. My W knows I love her so there was no need to reiterate that to her. I just went for something simple and straight to the point. It was clear and consistent. So clear in fact that W decided she didn't 'understand it' and came to my house so I had to reiterate it.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"