I think he is mainly worried about logistics as he has no car - will see if we can work around it somehow and have him here X-mas Day.
I may be out of line here. No. Why? And isn't that his problem?
Come on BS. I know you want to have him there for Xmas day for the kids, but that's his job. He needs to do the work on this. Let him worry about logistics - how about hiring a car? Taking a bus? Getting a taxi? Getting a friend to drive him? How about walking? (okay some of these may be logistically impossible but you know what I am saying).
Stop enabling him and let him do it himself.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
