For the past couple days, I feel I am prepared to "toss away" my marriage. I want to make sure I feel that way for a couple days. It could be from the pressure I'm getting from WAH.

I did read through the other plan B letters and I just can't write the caring and loving things to my WAH as they did. I feel his actions have extinguished the love I had for him.

I'll try working on a plan B letter anyway. I'll post it here first though.

I do agree I need to set boundaries asap. He needs to see the consequences of his actions. I've been a doormat for too long. I'm done with plan A. He's told me he's cutting off financial support and I don't think he's bluffing. Ugh. How can I write this man a kind letter after his cruelty? Gag.


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10