I completely agree with Cutter about it all. In my sitch, my MIL did not reach out to me about the affair; she reached out about her grandson. She was very embarrassed about her son's treatment of us (she told me later) and didn't know what to say.

I think your MIL possibly didn't know what to do in regard to contacting you about your mum. She is possibly trying to stay connected with you and your D separate from your WAW. That is what my inlaws are doing and it's okay with me! Again, I am not angry with them for something their son is doing!

Just sign cards w/ your name and D. Not the right time to be manipulative. I like how Cutter is consistently mentioning the same 2 names of women to people so that it can get around that he could be dating! It just seems more believable and classy--not a game! (even though it kind of is!)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004