I spoke to WAH today - I had to force myself to end the conversation - after half an hour - how sad am I We spoke about X-Mas Day too - he doesn't even know if he can sleep in his parents house as so many of his siblings are home too - he will now fly in on the 22nd - I think he is mainly worried about logistics as he has no car - will see if we can work around it somehow and have him here X-mas Day.
It felt so good to talk to him - god I hate this...such a waste