What to do about WAW

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Rendo... you are.

I am probably that last person to give any advice... but you can not expect it to just flip in your favor overnight. It is going to take time.

What I have learned from others here is that you must take care of yourself first, then set boundaries and detach. Detaching reserves the last bits of love you have for your spouse while she is driving u carzy.

DB until your nose bleeds.... and stick to it.

Post comments and ask for advice. You'll get some good stuff.

Never change what is working and look for other ways to accomplish your goal. But do not be fake. Be real and be orepared for whatever outcome is waiting for you.

Glad to hear you 2 still can laugh. My W and I can too. Last we spoke we had a great time. That when I desided to go dark. I am having my ups and downs too. But sticking to it.

Yes, Baby steps!