I'm actually not in agreement with being rude. IMHO, she still needs to be polite and if he is doing GOOD things, then by all means she should respond. It's when he does STUPID things that she should ignore.

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He doesn't want to do the work to change.


you know why? because 1, he hates himself 2, he's probably never been truly happy (see number 1) 3, He doesn't realize how great the reward is if he WOULD do the work.


YEA for your son!!! and yes, I'm scared for you too!! lol He'll be fine though smile luckily for us, you have to be 16 AND have a drivers ed class before you can drive. and even then, you can't drive with kids in your car, or go anywhere except work or school. (personally I think it's too strict, but it would be good for some kids)


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."