LRT.

Are you prepared to completely toss away your marriage?

You are going to go against the written script in their heads.

PLAN B letter.

Needs to explain what and why your doing it.

Who they contact for trival info.

When and what they can contact you about.

You write out boundaries. You stick to it.

You let them know that they have a choice.

You let them know that they have consenquences to their actions.

We can help you through writting this.

Do you have an IM ?

Are you finished with Plan A?

http://forum.marriagebuilders.com

Has some great threads on how to write a Plan B letter and just some other good threads... You can search for more Plan B info

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=37;t=019428

http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2029218#Post2029218

http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2029218#Post2029218

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