It's why, as you said many times before, lock that little bit of love away for the WAS. It stops your feelings turning to hate. That's for us and is very important.
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As I will not be her friend. I am her husband and lover or nothing. I did not marry her over 10 years ago to be just her friend. No hate. Just facts about reality.
Cutter, you said it again. Absolutely 100% agree. As I think all WAS's do, they want to be your friend. I told my W from day 1, I will not be here friend. I am her Husband. As you said, I didn't marry her to get her friend - I married her to be her husband, lover and best friend TOGETHER. Fact.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
