Kalni: I ordered 350$ worth of stuff from VS and charged it to his card "by accident" and ordered 2 tiny vibrators ROFLMAO.
Kalni: I plan to start using my new BoB while he sleeps beside me. Maybe that would get the point across to him. WICKED! K, that's gonna get a rise out of him and drive the point straight home. You've lost a bit of the surprise advantage if the purchases show on the CC bill. WAIT UNTIL he's asleep before you use it. If you really want to drive him crazy strip naked and kneel facing him as you use it
Kalni: Of course he may just ask me to go somewhere else not to disrupt his sleep... IF the moron does... your answer: "OK." Get out of bed and start getting dressed to kill. When he asks what you are doing tell him, "Never mind. Go back to sleep." ... and leave for a long drive. On your return when he asks where you went.. "To investigate alternatives" is your answer.
Kalni: You will survive, no matter what. I hope "what" is not another man... Efxaristo adelfi. Efxoume mia kali klisi me tin diki sou katastasi. Mistixos, tora me pire tin laxtara. (Apopse 8elo an pio - Xaris Aleksiou)
motherof3: You sir, are a wealth of knowledge. Thanks for sharing. Thank you fair lady. I sincerely hope that some of it is of use in your situation and things around for you. I wish I had more time to read your thread and post to you. I usually read a person's entire thread to understand as much as I can before I start commenting.
motherof3: No matter what, you are going to be okay. Thank you. it may not seem like it today, but I do believe this too.
cutterbug: I remember that day when I found out. Felt the same way. <snip> It was a deal breaker for me that day. But the next day I realized its just not that easy. Bro, I get you, understand and can empathize. We're different people, from different backgrounds, raised in different worlds and experienced different lives. I KNOW myself and I KNOW I will NOT be able to follow that path.
dday101798: I know that feeling all too well and it so sucks. My XW would say she's going tainning salon, if I remember right, was only 15 minutes, but always took at least 3 &1/2 hours Yes, it sucks. And I'm not prepared to endure any more of this.
luvless: Stopping by to say I've been thinking about you all day! Ai yai yai, chikita! Gracias senora. God be with you sister and may He thaw through the frozen barrier of your H's.
Gardener: after your insightful hit-and-runs on my (and others') sitch, I'd ponder and consider your words and inevitably end up wondering: "Who was that..." LOL Gman. Hit and runs? Yeah, I am a terror... especially when people try hind behind their horror-scopes. Thanks for the support.
Britt54: Keep your head up Gnosis. To get it bashed in? LOL. Joking. Thanks for the encouraging words. It's time for change. Shake the tree and create CRISIS.
Mindfull: I'm not sure if you glean this from my posts, but I'm fairly high maintenance (in a cute, subtle, way... LOL) (((M))) Since all this started I mocked the efforts a woman went through to work on her appearance. I now appreciate it and commend women that put all that hard work in to look good.
Mindfull: Does she have acrylic/gel nails? No, all natural.
Mindfull: And, she has a WEEKLY PEDICURE! My bad. From my understanding this is done every two weeks.
Mindfull: Does she do anything else? Waxing? (MAX 30 minutes) Massage? (Depends on service) BOTOX? (15 minutes) Chemical Peels? (45 minutes) Waxing = DIY. No to massage, Botox and chemical peels. Mrs Gno's skin is beautiful and she has taken care of herself over the years. When the warpaint goes on she can look up to fifteen years younger. She's aged very well (inherited from her mother.)
Mindfull: Don't you see a cc receipt? How much are the charges? No CC receipt. All of it comes out of petty cash. One of the things that has stumped my investigation is that there are no out-of-the-ordinary expenses. She has always maintained herself.
Mindfull: OK, G, need an update! Do I have to hop on an airplane, and escape this -20 degree weather, and come down and assist? ROFL. Sister I wanted to reply to you the minute I saw this post. <tongue in cheek reply> You're welcome, pack your bikini and hop onto a plane. We can enjoy ice-cold coconuts on the beach.
Mindfull: Taptaptaptaptap.... No rush, G, really... Spoken like a TRUE woman. ROFL.
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I've got some things to do... will continue with the replies when I return. Thanks everyone.
K, that's gonna get a rise out of him and drive the point straight home. You've lost a bit of the surprise advantage if the purchases show on the CC bill. WAIT UNTIL he's asleep before you use it. If you really want to drive him crazy strip naked and kneel facing him as you use it
