He came across as dismissive & arrogant to both the StBX & I... in fact other than a school issue with our D!5 last month... this was the first thing in AGES that he & I agreed on... this guy left a bad taste in both our mouths.
An attorney that came across as dismissive and arrogant? I think many of them do unfortunately. Do you have to commit to this guy as your mediator or can you find another? I would actually recommend maybe a mediator that isn't an L. My experience was ridiculous, the mediator suggested X having custody Monday through Friday was reasonable even though I had 95% of their custody for the prior 15 years, and everything else my X suggested. No discussion or mediation at all. It was entirely worthless. She was an L as well and don't understand how that could be mediation. She went to X, brought back his ludicrous suggestions, and said they were good ideas?
