More directly, if WAW heard of or saw my new friend with me, will she be p*ssed off and abandon any future thoughts of reconciliation or think, hmm, this one finds him attractive, maybe I should too?
The answer is "yes". She could think either of those things, or both.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement