Here's the question: What does everyone think about asking another new friend - WOW woman, and I'm very particular - to do something on Friday or Saturday?

New friend has a sterling reputation - I have checked.

This new friend knows my full sitch and is still interested.

My WAW is still number one. Reconciliation is still my goal.

Word would likely filter back soon if I had continuing social plans with this woman. If my WAW or one of her friends ever saw me with her out (a reasonable scenario-only so many fun places to go here), my WAW would definitely see the new friend is quite good looking and "my type."

More directly, if WAW heard of or saw my new friend with me, will she be p*ssed off and abandon any future thoughts of reconciliation or think, hmm, this one finds him attractive, maybe I should too?

I was introduced to this new friend over drinks Friday with mutual friends (five of us total) after work. We work in the same building. I work for an operating business, and she works for the corporate holding company. She had her job outsourced, so she will operate the outsourced business from her home starting Jan 1.

Drinks Friday went as well as one could hope. They even laughed at my jokes. She told our mutual friend afterward that I am "good looking and very intelligent." I am rarely accused of being either. :-) I can say, in my sitch, that was a nice thing to hear this AM.

sandi2-How does this fit with WAW being number one?