Pls help--confused and fearful

[newmama]

I found out from OW's ex that those nasty TM were written while WAH was with OW. He's being pressured by her. They share my TMs and emails.

Typical. OW is pissed that her ex is in touch with you AND is threatened that you are not D'ing WH. And DBD, this reaction is sooo common. It really is. Check out marriagebuilders and survivinginfidelity websites and forums.

My WAH is not showing any signs of wanting to come back. He's running far far away and detached from the kids.

Again, pretty common. My SIL's ex (who wants her back now) did the same thing with his boys. That's why I was so scared my WH would completely abandon S and I. THEY ARE LOONY WHILE IN THE A!!

I am just letting you know that this behavior is not uncommon but it doesn't mean it's okay!

So, IMO, if you write the plan B letter, do not send it via email since OW sees those. Can you mail it to his work? Or somewhere?