I would say it is more of a guilt/obligation thing. He feels like he needs to help me out since he basically walked away from his role as husband...

However the vm didn't say who was paying for it, and right now I can't afford it! I just landscaped the yard over the summer (4k) and then the window treatments last month (2k). I guess my stress outlet is renovation! smile But I have pretty near emptied my savings--I HATE charging things. So now more big purchases for now.

Should I email dan and ask what his intentions were? He leaves today for 4 more days in sunny canada.

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17