Question. You mentioned that your W did not like when you were not there friday night. You mentioned she was angry. I did this yesterday. I was out all day and wasn't home when H got home from work. H usually gets upset when he doesn't know where I am and even more upset when he comes home past the kids bedtimes and I'm STILL not home.

My question is, is this a good thing? Him being angry? I assumed it was because of the previous reason just because I know him and he has been angry in the past when I haven't been home. Is this the way we want them to react? Does it show they care? I dunno?

P.S. You sound like such a strong man. I have no fear that you won't get through this one way or another.

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14