Ditto what Trent said.

Have, fun, relax and be the you she once wanted to be with and will again. wink

You don't bring up and R talk, and if she does, I'd say decline all together, if she insists, do so as long as it's comfortable.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11