Originally Posted By: Hope4us
I still go through periods of anger and resentment. I've tried to look at it logically and I think, at least for me, that I've discovered those periods of anger and resentment come when I'm feeling unsure of myself or our marriage.


Hope,

I know I'm a bit behind you in the amount of time piecing, but I do have a rememdy for what you describe here. I long held a that anger and resentment, and it really held up all progress, for myself and repairing the relationship to my XW in any regard. Once I finally admitted to myself, the things I did, the things I didn't do, the way acted, it was no wonder why my XW left and did what she did. Does it make what she's done right? No, and that is where we are in turn is that she has frogiven me to forgive herself. From there, the past has been resolved in most part, and now all think of is the future.

For what it's worth, if it helps you.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11